Guys tips on the ultimate insecurity â is SHE cheating?
She’s no longer as needy and demanding as she used to be.
At the begging of the relationship she couldn’t even cross the street on her own. You were demanded to pick her up,drop her,go shopping,exercise,etc.
Suddenly she doesn’t need your company anymore;this clearly means that
someone else is filling in your place.There is a slight possibility that she might need some time on her own,but if she is getting unusually independent when she used to be really needy and dependent, it is more likely a signal that she is no longer needs YOU.
She no longer gets angry by herself.
If your women used to be angry for anything and picked fights for subjects out of thin air,or for ridiculous issues like not being able to meet her for lunch or come hang out with her and her friends,and now all that anger has gone away,is a clearly bad sign.There used to be a time were were you had to calculate and premeditate every move,since even the smallest thing would mess everything up and provoke a rage on her.This is something to take in consideration,since you can start wondering what ever happened to her…
She begins to become more and more secretive.
Remember when she used to drain your brain with all that incredibly long and
chats about her daily events?Remember when she was even discussing with you how a salad dressing,a pair or shoes or a bitchy coworker ruined her day?Well,if she has closed this channel of communication could mean a big and serious alert. She is no longer volunteering to give out any information about her daily happenings because is most like that she is hiding something. You might find yourself digging into the garbage can or trying to crack her diary pretty soon…
On the little time she spends with you she gets âover focused
Before you even open your mouth she turns the table on you.That crazy blabber jukebox has run out of records and now she just listen to what you have to say. When you start asking question,she gets almost monosyllabic-t ´s all about âyou â and âyou â and âonly you â rather than âi did this â or âi was here last night â. She doesn’t wanna step into any of her lies,that is why she carefully listens to everything you say!
She is showering you with gifts as a part of covering her tracks.
The best way to lie is to act upon it.She will give you âi love you â cards out of
the blue,and might even offer you to wash your car,dinner for you and your
friends and pay for the beer.You stupidly think that all these are sweet gestures, when they are nothing but an overcompensating behavior that can only make everything even more suspicious.f you get flooded by niceties,you might want to know what is really going not,and usually is not that good.
She picks fights quick y if confronted about even the dumbest things.
The days were you both could communicate in pace and harmonious precision are long gone.Every time you confront her,every sentiment that you express sets her of,and there is always a good excuse to lash out at you.Does this situation sounds familiar? She is subconsciously trying to justify her dirty little tryst.By nagging you when confronted she eliminates some of all of her nagging guilt. If she starts to burst out of this confronting situations and she attacks you and points out your every flaw,push the âcheater alarm â button and get to the bottom of what is going on.
Her new "friend"
A telltale sign that your wife /girlfriend /partner is cheating arises when a
mysterious friend inches their way into the picture.Could be co-worker,or an old friend from "way back,"she keeps this friendship under wraps and is hesitant to share any general details about them,much less introduce you.And it doesn’t take a Ph.D.to figure out why.
She refuses to answer simple questions
Anyone who refuses to answer even the simplest and fairest of questions is
without a doubt hiding something.Also if she answers questions only after
repeating them back to you (indicating that she is searching her brain for a good lie lie).Be wary of times when,rather than reveal that she got home at midnight, she begrudgingly asks,"Why do you want to know what time left the pub?" if she gets defensive about disclosing information that she used to volunteer without hesitation,there is a good chance that she is hiding something..or someone.
Breaks the routine extremely often
Once she gets involved in a hot and heavy romance elsewhere,you have to be a plant not to feel any shift in her daily priorities.All of the sudden,there no more implied dates,like âSunday afternoon movies â or âPasta Fridays at Benito ´s â. Something else âgot on the way â or âcomes up â.There is a tendency for most philanderers to schedule their meetings with her new âthing â or âflame â as often as they can be,with a complete disregard from previous engagements.
Sexual relationship is completely gone
And this is a KEY factor.f she is still with you,but she won ´t have ANY SEX,not
even spooning in the nude,turn on the âcheat siren â and start reading the writing on the wall.She is either with you because she got used to it,she is in it for the money or you have terminal Cancer and she is the sole beneficiary of your will. Once the sex has stopped,it is more likely that she is getting it from someone else.
JUST LIKE MEN THOUGH!!!